Reach Out
Get in touch.
Real questions get real replies. Usually within forty-eight hours.
I'm Ray. This is the page that gets you to me. Email, mailing address, or press inquiry. Three short forms below.
This is not medical advice. Bring health questions about your own body to your doctor.
Three Ways to Reach Me
Email, mail, press.
01 — Email
Best way to reach me.
For most things, just email. I read every message that lands in the inbox. I do my best to reply to all of them.
ray@divorcediabetes.comReplies usually arrive within forty-eight hours.
02 — Mail
If you'd rather write a real letter.
Here is the mailing address for paper correspondence, returns, or anything that benefits from a stamp.
03 — Press, partnerships, and interviews
For journalists and podcasters.
Mention "press" in your subject line and you'll move to the top of the queue. The short bio below is paste-ready for show notes and articles. Cover image and additional headshots available on request. For book inquiries, the easiest path is the book page.
This is not medical advice. Anything in the press bio reflects Ray's personal lab results and choices, not a clinical claim about anyone else.
Quick Message
Or write me here.
If email is faster for you, use the address above. If a form is easier, this one drops into the same inbox.
No selling. No sharing. The only person reading this is me.
If you do not get a reply within four business days, the message likely got eaten by a spam filter — try the email address above instead.
What to Skip
Save us both some time.
Three things that go better somewhere other than my inbox. Sending them to me delays your answer, not speeds it up.
- Medical questions about your own body. I am not a doctor, and even if I were, I am not your doctor. I cannot read your labs, weigh your meds against your full history, or tell you what to do. → Ask your doctor. Bring the questions from Section 4 of the Companion Playbook if you want a starting point.
- Refund or download issues from Gumroad. Gumroad handles the paperwork faster than I can. They have your order, your receipt, and the buttons to fix it. → Reply to your Gumroad receipt email or use the support link on your order page.
- Cold pitches with no specifics. "Hey Ray, want to partner?" with no project, no audience, no specifics will get archived. I read everything, but I cannot guess what you want from me. → If you have a real ask with real specifics, send it. The form above has a Partnership option in the dropdown.
Everything else — write me. I'm here.
This is not medical advice. Nothing on this site, in my book, or in any reply I send substitutes for a conversation with a clinician who knows your full picture.